When you are going to spend some time with Her, you should have a plan. Decide where you want to go, what you want to do and what you want to eat. Plan for any contingency. Be positive, be firm, be ready, and be prepared not to do those things. Having a decision made is inspiration for Her. You could ask Her a hundred times what She would like to do and the answer will be; “I don’t know” or “I don’t care.” But, the minute you have a plan for Her (a viable plan not some throw away suggestion), She gets Her creative juices flowing and you’ll be off.