Monthly Archives: June 2011

Make Sure Your Oxygen Mask Is Secure First

Step 1: Be ready, willing and able to take care of yourself. Step 2: Take care of yourself. You must be able to feed yourself, dress yourself, change your own channel, do your own laundry, make your own reservations, get … Continue reading

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Don’t Just Do Something, Stand There

Action, for the sake of action is, unless you’re in a Michael Bay film, pointless. Running around like a chicken with its head cut off is like, well, running around like a chicken with its head cut off. There are … Continue reading

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Always Be Right

Now now. Hold on. Read it again. You will not always be right but, you can be right for Her. You can’t always be perfect (can I get an amen) but you can be perfect for Her. You may not … Continue reading

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Don’t Embarrass Her

Don’t call Her out in front of your friends. Don’t put Her on the spot for a laugh. Don’t show embarrassing pictures of Her to anyone. And for God’s sake, don’t play a recording of Her snoring, even as a … Continue reading

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Open Her Door

No, it’s not a metaphor. Open Her door for Her. The car door, the door to the house or a store, any time you can ease the way for Her. Make sure She knows that you’re aware that She doesn’t … Continue reading

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Be There For Her

When She has a doctor’s appointment, be there for Her (in the waiting room). If She must comfort a friend, be there for Her (nearby but out of earshot). If She must go shopping for a new dress and needs … Continue reading

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Do Unto Others

Actually, do unto Her as you would have others do unto Her. Treat Her the way you want others to treat Her. It sounds obvious but think about it. Would you allow other people to get away with the way … Continue reading

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