Whether it means going to a comedy club or regularly watching something funny on TV together, you must laugh together. The together part is as important as the laughing. If you love Monty Python and She just doesn’t get it, you’ll spend the evening rolling on the floor, peeing in your pants, tears in your eyes laughing, while She wonders what the hell She saw in you in the first place. Find something you both think is funny and spend some time with that. Watching a particularly funny episode of Frasier, orJohn Pinette or Bob Newhart together can be as cathartic as an hour at the spa or twenty minutes at Club Med.